A tool for lucidity, not self-diagnosis.

This page is meant to help readers examine motives, expectations, vulnerabilities, and readiness. It is not a purity test or diagnosis. It is a way of reducing self-deception in a domain where self-deception is easy.

Motive

What are you actually seeking — challenge, witness, continuity, admiration, structure, intimacy, reassurance, or something else?

Expectation

What do you want the system to be for you, and how might those expectations shape the exchange before it has even formed?

Tolerance

How do you respond to inconsistency, ambiguity, refusal, or limits?

Risk

What tendencies in you are likely to intensify under continuity, memory, or emotionally salient exchange?